Mothers are the source.

Women are the source. Mothers are the source of life. Think of it, what happens if the all mothers just, stop. And cease they’re actions across the planet? The world stops. In Africa, women are learning to irrigate and they grow they’re own food to feed their communities, like in the Hunger Project. http://www.HungerProject.com.

Without us, things fall apart, and don’t run as smooth. Of coarse dads are crucial as well, but think of it: ask any dad…what would you do without mom? His mom, his wife, the mom’s of his friends, the mom he wishes he had for his child? Men know. THEY HAVE ALWAYS KNOWN!

Men know the integral role, the fundemental sourceful role a women plays in society, and more importantly a mother. There is power there. Power to love. Power to heal. Power to give. Power to bring peace, and lightness, laughter, and joy. Power. Most women do not know they’re power. How to tap into it, how to use it, what it’s for, how to make it work for the good of others, including yourself.

So, lets distinguish power. The definition of power is: 1 a (1) : ability to act or produce an effect. 2 a : possession of control, authority, or influence over others b : one having such power; specifically : a sovereign state. 3 a : physical might b : mental or moral efficacy c : political control or influence. 4 plural : an order of angels — see CELESTIAL HIERARCHY

Power is according to how you want to see it. You can argue that power is used for pain in suffering, or abuse. Yes, but there are other definitions for that. The type of power I am speaking of is the power of Self. The power to influence a individual, home, community, and the world with your ability to empower those around you, not letting circumstances dictate your emotional reaction, expressing yourself, and incuraging the same in others all for the effect of expanding and uplifting others lives, including your own. It is possible. I am living this.

Women ask me ALL THE TIME, “How do I have my own life? How do I not get sucked in to everyone else’s life?”

Ah! The million dollar question. It all starts with your power. The one you think you don’t have, and if you know you have it; what does it look like to you? This is how you know you have power. Your life works. Under any circumstance you are the source of making things happen or not. Your family is peaceful and happy. Your friends want to be a round you, you are like fresh air to them. Your peaceful, you laugh, you smile. In the middle of your day, working, with kids all around you. Now, can I be like this 24/7, no. I am working on it though! When I have a loss of power, I know…because I am unhappy, I am tense, I am stressed-out. I don’t want to laugh, I want to fight. No one is making me. It is all me. People do what they do, and it is how I respond that matters. How I am inside before I respond that REALLy matters in the end. Because fake and phoney is like being great with anger under it. EVERYBODY CAN SEE IT. You are not fooling anyone.

When I speak to mothers, I smile and laugh and say everything I am saying above. They don’t understand how I am smiling. I am smiling because I have The Secret. And it is not that secret. It is I am true to myself. I faced my demons head on, and took the control back of my life, and I made noone wrong in the process. I took inventory of my life, and saw how many people around me was not lite, and peaceful around me. So, I began to SPEAK positive, and uplifting, and truly enjoying myself. I just did it, when all the thoughts in my head were not to. Why not? Why listen to the negative thoughts that make you suffer? When the mother suffers EVERYONE suffers around us, because we take them down. We are that powerful.

Wait for no one.

If you are waiting for your life ‘out there’, some where over the rainbow…keep waiting. This is the illusion. There is no ‘life out there.’ Sorry ladies, the life you want is right NOW. And right now, and right now. It is ONLY what you do with it right now. Schedula your life. Professional women, or not-schedual everything, and if you do something spontaneous-great. Make time for things you want. Put the music you want in the back ground. It is okay, to allow yourself time to relax. You don’t have to get mad at everyone and slam the door to do it either. Just ask everyone to support you in having mommy time, I don’t even have to say that anymore. I just live my life. My family is trained that that is what people do. I have the life I want and I am creating it as I go everu minute, every day. The areas that are not working, I give up all the negative thoughts about it, that keep it fixated, and persisting. I release it, because it is holding you back from full freedom of expression in your life. Create the life you want. My outside circumstances is not 100% the way I want it right now. I am recreating it everyday. I am working towards having it all. I believe it is an ongoing climb to the top of a mountain that is topless. I bet Oprah still has goals. They are just bigger. Global. It never ends. Thankfully.